Every one happens to get lucky in love every now and again. The real trick is learning how to change the odds so that they are in your favor.
The secret of this is to extend your time horizon. For example, let’s say a teenager has until graduation to find a place to stay, because after that, their parents are kicking them out of the house. This means they have a limited time frame to find a place to live as well as a job. This brief window of time severely limits her options and she’ll wind up working some crappy minimum wage job and sleeping on her friends couch until something better comes along.
Adversely, for those with a long time window, like a med student will have a longer time to wait for their big earnings to come in. Why, for the owners of the hospital, they’ve had even more time to raise the capital to build and open the hospital.
Applying This Concept to Dating and Relationship
For those who aren’t in a relationship right now, you might be wondering how you can end up with the man that makes you tingle deep within your bones. Oh, you can be pretty certain that it isn’t going to be the first person you go out with.
The long time horizon gives you the opportunity to be more picky when choosing someone to spend the rest of your life with.
For example, a lot of women find themselves stuck in a relationship with a man who doesn’t want to commit. If you were to clearly express your desire that you wouldn’t ever even allow yourself to date men longer than a few months if things doesn’t move toward a commitment. You aren’t being pushy, you’re just encouraging him to take himself out of the equation and allows you to continue looking for that long lasting relationship that you’re hoping for.
Another way you can turn the odds into your favor is by showing up to events where the type of men that you want to meet. If you want to be with a man who is disciplined, physically fit, and is well to do, then you certainly won’t find them hunched over a bar at 2am sipping on a stale beer.
A lot of women don’t think about dating like this, instead, they continue going to the same old dive bars and wondering why they aren’t meeting the quality men that they dream of. With so many people wasting their time trying to figure out how to succeed in finding themselves in a happy relationship, it’s no wonder why so many people get frustrated when things don’t go their way. Dating is full of trial and error, and for some people, this is too much to bear.
Here’s some quick and easy advice. Simply visualize the type of men you want to be with. Once you understand the type of man he is, put yourself in his path and make your intentions known. You are master of your own love life, so grab it and run like wild.