There is something incredibly attractive about an older man and if you currently are dating one or want to date one, you might be wondering how you can keep his interest trained on you and no one else. This is especially a topic of concern for younger ladies who like having an older man by her side.
It can be a challenge for younger women to understand the way an older man’s mind works; however, we have some information that may help you get and keep an older man’s attention.
Dress Sensibly
Although you may have a killer body and that may be one of the reasons why an older man is attracted to you, that doesn’t mean he wants you to flaunt it for everyone to see. This means that although you may have met him while wearing a bold colored body-con dress, you may want to wear more conservative clothing that isn’t quite so brightly colored. Yes, it may seem hypocritical, but you are dating him and you should look the part. You don’t want to be mistaken for his daughter when you are together, do you?
Have Interesting Conversation
If you are able to have an interesting conversation that touches on both of your interests, then you won’t even have to worry about keeping his attention. Older men can only tolerate so much chatter when it comes to pop culture and other topics that are what he would consider “mindless chatter.” If you aren’t sure what topics to talk about, pay attention to the things he is interested in and then learn as much as you can about it. When in doubt, ask him to explain things and then build on that. For example, if you don’t know what it is that he does for work, ask him to tell you about his day on the job.
Take Interest in His Passions
It is easy to pretend to be interested in horse racing to get his attention, but if you want to have a strong relationship with a man, you have to have a genuine interest in the things he enjoys. The idea behind showing interest in his hobbies and passions is to let him know that you care about him and want to be take part in the things he enjoys.
Keep Your Emotions in Check
Many older men feel that younger women are a bit on the unstable side when it comes to her emotions or she can’t control them, and this can be a big turn off for older guys because they are more level-headed and can think things through before flying off the handle. When you are with your older guy and something stirs your emotions, take a deep breath and calm down before you let your emotions get the best of you.
Don’t Be Afraid to Flirt
If you want to keep his attention, you have to make him feel wanted. You can do this by flirting with him and letting him know that you desire him. The key here is to flirt subtly. So the next time you are out to dinner together, play footsie with him or let your fingers graze his while you talk. These small things speak volumes to an older man.